Room for Everyone: Picking a Dining Table That Stretches for Christmas

It's the same conversation in a lot of houses around now. Who's coming for Christmas dinner, where is everyone going to sit, and will the table actually fit them? For most of the year a table for four does the job. Then late December comes and you need room for seven.

The good news is you don't need a huge table that swallows the room for the other eleven months. You need one that stretches.

Count heads, then measure

Start with the biggest number you'll realistically host, not the everyday one. Then work out where the table can go.

A rough guide is about 60cm of table edge per person, so everyone can use a knife and fork without elbowing their neighbour. On our dining room tables page, rectangular tables from 140cm seat six properly, and 160 to 180cm tables handle the family plus a couple of friends. Round tables seat four without corners getting in the way.

Then think about the space around it. Allow at least 90cm between the table edge and the nearest wall or piece of furniture, so people can pull their chairs out and get past each other. In a lot of UK terraces and flats, that clearance is what decides the table, not the table itself.

If you only host a big crowd once or twice a year, that's the strongest case for a table that changes size. You get the extra seats on the day and your floor back on Boxing Day.

Three ways to get more seats

 

Extendable table

Drop leaf table

Larger fixed table

Everyday size

Compact

Very compact when folded

Full size all year

How it grows

Pull-out or centre section

Hinged leaves lift up

It doesn't

Best for

Dining rooms, open-plan spaces

Small kitchens, flats

Rooms with space to spare

Example from our range

HOMCOM, 120 to 160cm, seats 4 to 6

HOMCOM pinewood, seats 4 to 6

vidaXL rough mango, 180cm

Extendable tables: one table, two sizes

An extendable table is the obvious answer if you've got a dining room or an open-plan space that can take a bigger table now and then. The HOMCOM extendable dining table goes from 120cm to 160cm in a high gloss white finish, seating four day to day and six when it's extended. That extra 40cm is the difference between a squeeze and a proper meal.

For smaller spaces, the vidaXL extendable table runs from 80cm to 120cm. It keeps a small footprint most of the year and opens up by half again when family visit.

Check both sizes before you buy. The extended length is the one that needs to fit the room with chairs pulled out, and that's the measurement people forget.

Drop leaf tables: small most of the year

If floor space is tight, a drop leaf table makes more sense. The leaves fold down on hinges, so the table can sit against a wall almost like a console, then lift up when guests arrive. Our space-saving drop leaf tables are mostly HOMCOM, and a few are well thought out for small homes.

The HOMCOM drop leaf table folds down to just 26cm deep and sits on six wheels, so it can be rolled out of the way after dinner. The pinewood version in a natural finish seats four to six, which covers a typical Christmas Day. There's also a white drop leaf table with storage drawers, which is handy for keeping crackers, napkins and the good cutlery in one place.

Before ordering, it's worth reading our guide on how to measure for a drop leaf table. Measure it open, not closed.

The trade-off is that the open leaves are held up by brackets or swing-out legs rather than the main frame. They're fine for a family meal, but don't lean your full weight on an open leaf.

Or a bigger table that stays big

If you've got the room, a larger fixed table saves any faff on the day. vidaXL has a 180cm rough mango wood table on an industrial steel frame, and a 120 x 120cm solid mango table if a square shape suits your room better. The HOMCOM 4 to 6 seater has an oak veneer top on a white frame for a lighter look.

Solid wood has another advantage at Christmas. Grain hides the odd scratch from a serving dish better than a plain painted top.

Don't forget the chairs

A table that seats six is only useful if you've got six chairs. This is where plenty of people come unstuck on Christmas Eve.

You've got two options. Buy a set that comes with matching chairs, or borrow chairs from round the house and accept they won't match. Our kitchen table and chair sets seat from two to six, in wood, MDF and metal. One of the most practical is the natural pine drop leaf set, a large oval table that comes with its chairs and seats four to six.

If you go with a separate table, check its height against any chairs you're borrowing. Desk chairs and stools rarely sit at the right height for a dining table.

A few hosting tips that help

Measure the doorway as well as the room. A table that fits the dining room still has to get through the hall.

Do a dry run. Set the table fully extended a week before, with every chair in place. You'll spot problems while there's still time to fix them.

Plan where the leftovers go. A wide sideboard or a spare surface nearby means the table can be cleared for pudding without everything ending up on the worktop.

If you're also thinking about the table day to day, our guide to choosing a table and chairs set covers sizes for kitchens in more detail.

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Delivery is free on all orders to UK mainland addresses and arrives in 3-5 working days, with no hidden fees. If you change your mind, you can return your order, but the return postage is paid by you.

Frequently asked questions

  • How big a dining table do I need to seat 6?

    Around 140cm long for a rectangular table. As a rough guide, allow about 60cm of table edge per person. Tables of 160 to 180cm handle six plus a couple of extra guests. If you only need six seats a few times a year, the HOMCOM extendable table goes from 120cm to 160cm and seats four to six.

  • Is an extendable dining table worth it?

    Yes, if you host a bigger group a few times a year but don't want a large table in the room the rest of the time. The HOMCOM extendable table seats four at 120cm and six at 160cm. Check the extended length fits with chairs pulled out, as that's the measurement people miss.

  • What is the difference between an extendable and a drop leaf dining table?

    The main difference is how they grow. Extendable tables use a pull-out or centre section, while drop leaf tables have hinged leaves that fold down at the sides. Drop leaf tables pack away smaller. The HOMCOM drop leaf table folds down to 26cm deep on six wheels, so it suits small kitchens and flats better than an extendable model.

  • How much space do I need around a dining table?

    Leave at least 90cm between the table edge and the nearest wall or furniture. That gives people room to pull chairs out and get past each other. Measure with the table at its biggest size, especially for extendable and drop leaf tables, as the open size is the one that has to fit at Christmas.

  • Which dining table is best for a small UK kitchen?

    A drop leaf or round table fits best. Round tables seat four without corners getting in the way, and drop leaf tables fold flat against a wall. The HOMCOM drop leaf table with storage drawers keeps cutlery and napkins to hand. Our space-saving drop leaf tables cover several sizes.

  • Do dining tables come with chairs?

    Some do, but most dining tables are sold on their own. If you need matching seats, a set is simpler. Our kitchen table and chair sets seat from two to six, and the natural pine drop leaf set is a large oval table that comes with its chairs and seats four to six.

  • Can a drop leaf table take the weight of a full Christmas dinner?

    For a normal family meal, yes. The open leaves rest on brackets or swing-out legs rather than the main frame, so spread heavy dishes across the table and avoid leaning your full weight on an open leaf. The HOMCOM pinewood drop leaf table seats four to six when fully open.

  • Can I buy dining tables from Bossy Cat?

    Yes. Our dining tables range includes extendable tables, drop leaf tables with wheels or storage drawers, and solid mango and acacia wood tables from HOMCOM and vidaXL. Delivery is free on all orders to UK mainland addresses and arrives in 3-5 working days, with no hidden fees. If you change your mind, you can return your order, but the return postage is paid by you.